Kimberly "Sue" Harvey

It feels like its been a lifetime since you left us, but it's only been a few months. With each day that passes, I come to the realization that we will never see you again. I keep thinking that maybe this is a nightmare and I will wake up and see you. I still want to call you, and I still want to send Charlie to pick you up so that you can spend a couple of weeks with me. Since you left, it seems we all have started getting sick. I don't know if it's because we miss you so much or if it is just something that is meant to be. Sue, this is the hardest thing we have ever had to go thru. It was hard when we lost our parents and then our grandparents, but this is  million times worse. We have been a part of each others lives for so many years. We went thru so many things and had so many happy times.  We were all supposed to grow old together. We had a bond like no other. It was ALWAYS supposed to be the 6 of us. 

I will never forget the 4 of us girls standing at your casket, saying goodbye to you, knowing it didn't need to be like this. Your death was wrong on so many levels. The ones who were supposed to love you and take care of you, they ended up hurting you so much. I will never understand how someone can do that. We did everything in our power to help you and take care of you, and when you went around them, they took every chance to make your life worse. Why? How could your own blood do things like that? I guess I know the answer, but it still doesn't make it easier to accept. They destroyed us, but they haven't realized what they have done to themselves. I don't think they will ever accept responsiblity for their part in your death. Their minds will never be clear enough. Your death has not changed one single aspect of their life.

The things that were done after your death, I will never be able to forgive them. I am sorry Sue, but I just can't find it in my heart to forgive. We were shut out, we weren't allowed to have any say in your resting place. I was screamed at when I asked for a burial. They had their minds set on having you cremated and I just can not forgive that. I realize they are young, but they should have let us help in the planning, instead of depending on a loser to influence their decisions.  I feel they did it out of spite. I will never forgive them for cremating you, leaving you lay for days on end because one person in particular was busy looking for an apartment--not having the time to help in the arrangements, partying, forgetting to call a funeral home, the applause for the singers at the funeral home, one person in particular worrying about her mascara running after leaving your casket, I could name more, but the memories of that 12 days just makes me sick.

Sue, we will never let your memory die. We love you and miss you so much. We will always cherish the happy memories we have of you. You will live on thru us. Even though we miss you more than we can even begin to explain, I know you are in a better place, and I know you are safe and not wanting for anything. Sue, we will see you again one day and we will have that reunion in heaven with all of our loved ones that have passed. Until that time, hug everyone for me and tell them that I love and miss them. As for my little Jordan, I know you are filling in for me until I get there. You were with me the first time I got to see him and I think it hurt you almost as much as it hurt me. You and Carmen were there for me and I love you both for being there. You take care of him for me and Billy. I love you my Suebee. When I am called home, I know you will be there waiting for me and I can't wait to hug you.

Please watch over Diana, Carmen, Tina and John. I know they miss you, but I am not ready to let them go. We need each other.

We love you.

I think of you Sue, every day
your smiles and chatter, the words you did say.
The pepsi and catch-ups, the time that we shared,
busy lives lived close together, showed just how much we cared.

If only I could turn back time,
to when our lives were sailing along just fine.
Our sisterly chats, our planned places to go,
the soft plays, parks, shops and the beach,
where did those sands of time go?


I think of your words every day.

I always believed you would get more time with your beautiful grandson
for more love, laugh and play, with him and his toys.
But you didn’t get that chance, and you’re not here…

Why you Sue? Why were you taken from us so young?
How can we ever again have such fun?
I miss your bright sparkle, your humour and zest for life,
this empty void you have left behind, cuts like a knife.

We were both robbed , of precious time,
we should be sharing now, and in the years down the line.
The pleasures of watching our kids learn and grow,
Special “Auntie suebee”, my eternal sorrow.

You had so much to live for, so much yet to do,
it still feels unreal, being here without you.
I know I have to somehow live with the pain,
of never seeing your smile or hearing your voice ever again.

The answers that I’ll never find, nor ever understand
I only wish you were here
so I could hug you and take you by the hand,
down to the beach with the grandkids for ice-cream,
to paddle in the sea and write our names in the sand.

I miss you so much Sue, more than words can ever say,
my precious memories of you are with me every day.

HEY SIS I KNOW I DONT GET ON HERE LIKE VERESA AND DIANA  BUT I AM COMPUTER CHALLENGED ,BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW I LOVE AND MISS YOU MORE THEN ANYONE WILL EVER KNOW .LOVE YOU FOREVER 

TINA

Sue I'll never forget that morning that Veresa called me it was about 5:00 AM and told me you passed away. I didnt want to believe it and still dont. I wanted them to call me back and tell me they gave you a shot and brought you back, but NO ONE ever did.

God , I miss you so much. Sue  why did you have to leave me? My life is so incomplete now.  I mean it can it ever be the way it was. You were part of my life for 40 yrs. People keep tellling me it will get easier, but it seems to be getting harder. Sue, my world is so empty without you. You were the best. I just wish I would of told you that more. I  am in such a mess  without you, I  just dont know how to explain it, I am alive but it feels like my heart is dead. Dont get me wrong, I love my family, but it seems like maybe I am afraid to love too much cause the pain I feel from your death is just to much. Sue I just wish you  would come back or at least come and talk to me.  I have noticed since your death i just want to lay in bed and die, but I know you wouldnt want that, but Sue I didnt want you to leave me.  I just hope you are safe in the arms of God. One day we will be together, I promise. I LOVE AND MISS YOU  SO MUCH 

                               YOUR SISTER

                                    DIANA 

I’m Free

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free I’m following the path God has laid you see. I took His hand when I heard him call I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day To laugh, to love, to work, to play. Tasks left undone must stay that way I found that peace at the close of day.

If my parting has left a void Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss Oh yes, these things I too will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life’s been full, I savored much Good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your hearts and peace to thee God wanted me now; He set me free.  

Sue I love you so much

Your the only one I see,
I turn around,
and your right behind me.
I never wanted you to go,
but now you're just the wind that blows.
Why did you leave me,
without saying goodbye,
you are the one who haunts my dreams,
you are the tears that I cry.
You meant so much to me,
it's too hard to believe,
that your no longer here,
I saw you but you just disappeared.
If you came back,
the one thing I would say:
Don't leave today.
MISS YOU FOREVER

If I had one wish to make
I'd use it up on you.
Just to see you one more time
In the heavenly sky so blue
All I have are the memories
The good ones and the bad
The day you finally let it go
And left me more than sad
I wish that you could come back here
And fill back up this hole
You put it there years ago
When your body left your soul
You always made me feel special
You were always there it seems
But after all this is too big
It's only wishful Dreams
SUE I  MISS YOU SO MUCH

Sue I miss you so much.  I think about you all the time.  I know you dont want me to cry for you, but it is hard not to and not knowing what happened makes it worse. I just love you so much and it is not fair that you got robbed out of life.  I can almost imagine you sittin on my couch and us talking  about  the kids.  Well sis just I justed wanted to let know I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.  I KNOW you love the beach so here is a pic of Bryana at Nags Head.

Love you so much

HAPPY 1st BiRTHDAY in heaven. Sue I miss you so much it is so hard for me to get on this page. your are the nicest, funniest, corneyest aunt anyone could ever have. you are missed and loved. Sue, I have been thinking of you so much today. i especially cant quit thinking of the fun time we have at the motel in beckley. i love and miss you more than life itself.

and i was thinking about your birthday what you would be doing today. you would be having a blast opening present, eating cake, and laughing.

you always had a smile on your face unless you was mad but that was often.

I LOVE and MiSS you so much Kimberly Ann Harvey.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!

Here is a picture of William at his 5th birthday party. Carmen took her girls there to help him celebrate. He is such a cutie. ♥

Sabrina, Amber, Jessica, and 

William

Beth had her 8th grade prom last night. She looked beautiful. She reminds me of you.

Love you!

               Beth

                Beth and Rachel

Bryana entered the bicycle parade last weekend. She had a BLAST! She just couldn't get over the fact that she got to ride IN the road all the way thru town with a police escort! Woo hoo, she was excited! :)

You should have seen her when she rode past Ashley's work,  she was yelling "Mommy, mommy, I won, look at my ribbon"

had a dream of me and you talking not sure what we was talking about  and dont recall seeing you , but i know it was you cause when i woke up i was saying your name. i love you so much you just dont understand how much you being gone  has  really messed me up , i love you and i know if you had anything to do with it  you would be here with us  . i love you  more than anyone knows

GOOD MORNING SIS , AND HAPPY EASTER I LOVE YOU  AND MISS YOU SO MUCH !!! PLEASE AND COME AND VISIT ME  LISTEN TO THIS SONG I WANT YOU TO COME AND VISIT  ME AND HANG OUT  SOMETIME GOD I MISS YOU SO MUCH

YOUR SISTER

DIANA

I love you and miss you so much. I know you will have a blessed Easter in Heaven. Visit us so that we can see your beautiful face. ♥

 Dear mom,

My memories with you are beatiful you wre such an awesome mother, you cared for me more than anything in my life and don't know if anyone will ever love me like you.All the camping trips all the shopping trips or even me and you turning on the music and singing for hours on end like nothing else mattered. I just wanted you to know i wish we could have made millions more on top of that,but you left me with some awesome ones. I know sissy loves you and so does william.You always made his birthdays the best ,his big #5 is coming up next week or so we will miss you . love mandy